Ryan Galiotto

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Do you ever wish, after having read a fairy tale to you daughter you could dress her in yester-year’s style but still incorporating some of today’s fashion? It’s a bold step to grab this bull by the horns so to speak. You may be worried how it will be perceived by the outside world. You may even be dealing with fears that it is “too much” or “off the wall” to clothe your daughter in such a statement of class and grace. How about being nervous about the possibility your darling daughter may be teased?

That flare has been brought from the past into the fashion world once more. Belle Ame Pettiskirts are top notch at showing how their unique designs can potentially have such a large impact to children’s fashion. They have hit the mark from infant to teen, as well as each stage in between.

The pleasure we receive by dressing our daughters with ruffles and bows, allowing them to show off that little-girl mix of beauty and innocence which is what memories are made of. The opportunity to have this much influence on your daughter ‘s choice of clothing escapes so quickly; every moment we can dress them like the little princess they are is time to hold on to. Before you know it, your precious darlings are making choices on their own, following the trends and popularity of their peers. Make the best of this situation while you still can. It’s the best time to instill a positive influence about their fashion sense and aim them in the appropriate direction.

The versatility available to you with Belle Ame Pettiskirt allows for many different purposes. From Halloween costumes to beauty pageants, for dance or other groups to wear on performance night or simply perk up your daughter’s wardrobe there is a Belle Ame Pettiskirt for the occasion. The possibilities are endless, and will leave your daughter with a new look that is not only fun, but suits her personality with astuteness and sharpness you won’t find in other every-day attire elsewhere.

Every little girl, at one point or another wanted to be a princess or ballerina, even if it’s only for a short period of time. Belle Ame has a multitude of full and fluffy skirts which can permit you to see her dream come true (or maybe even yours!). They are perfect for the holiday season, or for those family get-togethers for grand feasts with long lost relatives. Valentine’s day, full of hearts and flowers allows for a layered style of pink and red in various tones. Your daughter will be the highlight of the day as she outdoes the decorations.

Is it time for a new family portrait? If so, consider an old-fashioned theme with the ladies done up in pettiskirts or dresses, while the men sport handsome suits. This type of portrait not only becomes a topic of conversation when friends and family see it for the first time, either when received as a gift or mounted on the family wall.

When you think about baby pettiskirts, you’re possibly thinking how quickly little ones grow. Think of the magical moments your daughter will experience playing dress-up with her dolls, using the same pettiskirts and pettidresses she once wore herself. Another option is to properly pack them away for when your daughter’s little girls can wear them, or perhaps other members of the family. For generations to come, the same grace and beauty can be shared.

All Belle Ame Pettiskirts and dresses are available in various solid colors, two tone or rainbow options, as well as different styles for any possible occasion, celebration or desire imaginable. The only limitations are those which are limited by your imaginations. Pettiskirts can be matched with graphic tees, one of a specific color or even a fluff t-shirt. Other choices could be coordinated leggings or simply by adding a made-to-match headband with crocheted flowers. There are ample choices for everyday attire, but your darling daughter will also be the ‘bell of the ball

The skills involved in raising a family and bringing up children are difficult to learn and no single approach fits every child – just because each child is unique. Yet a large proportion of modern parents seem to believe that the best way to acquire those skills is by consulting one or more of the thousands of books available in bookstores and online.

One thought to bear in mind from the beginning is that so-called “expert” recommendations change periodically. For example, sixty or seventy years ago the perceived wisdom was that a baby who cried should not be immediately picked up because that would train him to expect instant attention. Instead, the realization right from the start that baby had to fit into a routine was an essential preparation for his or her acclimatization to life’s realities later on.

Then some new thinking emerged, notably from Dr Spock. His views were controversial at the time but they became one of the leading works of child care reference. He discredited the regime that demanded discipline and structure because, he argued, every child was unique and demanded a unique parenting stance. So, for example, giving your baby instant attention including lots of kisses and cuddles was now a good thing. And since then, many more “experts” have emerged with more and different opinions on exactly what the right approach is.

My first-hand experience at parenting began more than thirty years ago and at that time, despite Dr Spock and others, moms relied more on family and friends and particularly their own instincts to figure out how to deal with their new bundle of joy. Learning about child care from books was a rarity but doctors and midwives were available to provide help where required.

I am certainly not an expert when it comes to parenting but there are a number of things that I found worked well for me and my children and I would like to share them with you:

* Talking to my babies during breast feeding and bottle feeding: that added to the closeness and increased the bond between us.

* In good weather I found that putting our baby in the yard in the baby carriage helped baby to sleep and gave them plenty of fresh air. I realize that that this is not practical these days as yards are not always fenced, many moms have to work and strollers have replaced the more traditional baby carriages.

* Notwithstanding Dr Spock, the application of a routine was key, even if it had to have at least a little allowance for flexibility. Almost from the start we adopted a process of bathing then feeding then bedtime and after the first few months we added story time to the bedtime. This all calmed them down and allowed them to get ready for sleep even as they grew older.

* Helping to develop language skills by talking to them throughout the day no matter what we were doing: every part of the day provided some opportunity to discuss what was going on and what they thought, ranging from first getting up and dressing through to shopping, cleaning and going out to the park for entertainment.

* Setting aside time during the day for quality time and sharing – I used to get my chores done before lunch and then the rest of the day was devoted solely to the children.

* My husband and I always presented a unified stance in front of the children when it came to discipline (even if we disagreed after the event in private) – kids are great at playing one parent off against another from a very young age.

* Maintaining consistency: we were always prepared to explain what the “rules” were and we worked hard to keep the rules the same, wherever possible, because our children seemed to respect and respond to that.

To be absolutely clear, what I’ve laid out above is what worked well for me and it’s certainly not a total guidebook to be slavishly followed, but I hope you find some thoughts and ideas that help you to do your parenting job more easily. Please just remember that you need to take all published advice with a pinch of salt, because your child is unique and will respond differently than any writer can define.